how does that question promote more, different debate?
we've established that,
yes, there are women who ONLY want one chapter, either because they believe rightly they wouldn't fit in with any other chapter, or because they're too spoiled to look beyond first appearances,
and that the only way to change this is to promote the concept of PNMs looking past first appearances, and the concept of "giving houses a chance,"
and that some panhellenic members believe this is unethical and a bad idea, because it is likely to put a PNM somewhere she won't be happy and won't fit in, and every PNM is capable of making her own informed decision (for you Kelly
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and some panhellenic members believe this is a reasonable way of encouraging PNMs to take a look at houses they are a great match for.