[KappaKittyCat]

It's funny that you should mention this. When thinking about this question, I realized that I was in the same situation at university and didn't even realize it. My chapter of Kappa was known as the "lesbian chapter," amont other horrible things. After I pledged, I had random people walking up to me and saying, "I didn't know you liked girls." I had no idea that Kappa was as internationally strong as it is; I chose it for the love and sisterhood. I never would have gone to any of the other chapters-- I COBed-- but even still, had I known then, I'd still be a Kappa. Would my life have been easier in college if I'd've joined one of the other two? Sure. But I'm who I am today because of what I learned in fighting to keep my chapter of Kappa alive on my campus.