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AOIIKristi made an excellent point. NO PRESSURE!!! When I received my bid for Sigma Kappa I said yes right away. The girls were happy but insisted I take the time to really think it over b/c it was an amazing commitment to make. They told me that I had to be 100% positive about this b/c they really liked me & didn't want me to have regrets later. I took their advice but during my "thinking" time, I always knew in my heart that I would go for it.
I think that sometimes some girls may be pressured into rushing & accepting bids when they really don't want them. If they are dong something that doesn't make them happy, why would you want them in your organization? I believe that the feeling has to be mutual between the Rushee & the sorority or else there could be trouble later.
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