RaeRae,
I'm glad to hear that you have had such a positive response from everyone.
Here is a little blurb from the Alpha Phi website on alum initiates:
http://www.alphaphi.org/initiate.html
"Alumnae Initiate Application -
Alpha Phi Fraternity offers alumnae initiate membership to outstanding women who are committed to the principles of friendship, sisterhood and support. Whether they chose not to take advantage of sorority membership as a collegian, did not have the opportunity at their college or did not attend college, they can become Alpha Phis. The proposed candidate cannot be an initiated member of another NPC group or currently meet qualifications for collegiate chapter membership."
Keep us posted!!