[astroAPhi]

Try and lay out all of her options for her. As you've seen in this thread, there are many. But one option should NOT be to go back to her ex. If he treats her bad, he might treat their baby bad too (I'd say more than likely he will, but there are people who are horrible husbands/wives but great parents and vice versa). By letting her know all her options, she can pick the one best for her.

(And if she is thinking about adoption, don't let people tell her the kid will be messed up/hate her. I'm adopted and I turned out fine (and no hatred for my biological mom)!)