I choose to no longer respond to the comments which I feel are unnecessary and at times inappropriate. I will let you ladies continue to entertain yourselves and make a mockery of my question while attempting to boost your own ego. I am a very sincere person and I greatly appreciate all relevant and informative responses to my question. Laidbackfella thank you for your honest opinion. I appreciate you taking the time to answer my question and giving me a bit of advice at the same time. Your response was very helpful to me. Ramrod thank you too. I appreciate your comments and accurate insight. It seems many people forget that at one point and time they too were in my shoes and now that they have achieved their goals(as far as sororities are concerned) feel superior. That's ok because for the many people that are like this there are also others that have not forgotten and will lend a helping hand.
Thanks again to all whose responses have helped me. Peace to all and God bless.