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Originally posted by Ronso
Having said all that, my guess is that if girls that are so hot it's intimidating want to have more than a hook up, they're going to have to be the ones to work for it. Because the guys that are worth dating already think they have no chance for whatever reasons and the guys that hit on you are only after one thing. Harsh reality but it's true. It's in no way right, but it's how things work. Unless a 10 comes up and starts kicking ass from the start, my guess is most guys won't think she's datable. Doable: yes. Extended booty call: sure thing. Actual relationship material: probably not. Not only will a 7 put it on you to compete with 10's, but life has forced her to rely on her personality more. Not fair but c'est la vie.
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That f*cking sucks. I don't like thinking that just because I may be attractive, that I have to be the one to go out and chase after guys. I am the kind of girl who likes to be approached, and I try to make myself appear approachable by body language and such. I realize you said this, but damn that's so not fair!
Before anyone goes reading too much into that, I am not saying that I'm a 9 or 10 or anything by ANY means, but I do think that I am reasonably attractive. I would really hate to think that it may be one of the main reasons that I am single.
Tonight, I was at a party and a guy went to a friend of mine to tell him that he thought I was really cute, yet he didn't even bothere to come and talk to me. WHY???