[AOII*Azra-elle]

I know someone that has been in this situation. I agree not to offer advice or opinions unless she asks. My friend was engaged and it was enough to actually break them up. They decided to have an abortion. If that is an option for your friend, or even adoption, if you don't agree with it, don't let it be known. Just be there for her, b/c with either decision, they are both hard and she will have to learn to live with them. My friend did this almost 10 years ago, and she still deals with it on a daily basis. She says the thing that gets her through the most is that her closest friends and family didn't judge her, but were there for her when she really needed them.