I'd say it's probably a good thing that they're not getting married if he's an asshole.
I've been in the same situation with a friend of mine, and I think that all you can really do is let her know that you'll be there for her no matter what she decides, and then be there for her. I wouldn't offer advice or opinions unless she asks.
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