[MeezDiscreet]

Originally posted by yellowflower
I have learned how to tell the truth at this point. When asked something about Delta i simply say "i don't want to discuss that" or if a Delta does a call i simply smile or say how are you, etc.

I really understand your madness, as I have spoke about "perps" before and know the seriousness behind such ways. It has been 6 plus years and I am fed up with lying about it.

I don't expect sympathy. I guess I was looking for a "kind word" I know that is crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Y'all take care and be blessed!

yeah, it was crazy to expect a kind word.

and what kind of response is "i don't want to discuss that?" be honest and tell people that you are NOT one of MY sorors!

if one of MY sorors acknowledges you as a soror, why smile and say hi? again, i say, be honest and tell THE TRUTH!!!!

perping really and truely bothers me more than i can express. i guess it's because i knew i wanted to be a soror at about the age of 9 and it was another twelve years before i became one. i came to college in 1998 and my want for Delta increased and i wasn't initiated until 2002. i went to college in a totally different city and i could have told people back home that i had pledged, but i didn't. why? because i respected Delta so much that i wanted to come by it honestly.

so you can go on somewhere with that "i don't expect sympathy...i was looking for a kind word," cuz that mess aint flying. and trust and believe that my words were a whole helluva lot kinda than i wanted them to be