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Thanks everyone.
I e-mailed my friend - the Mom - yesterday to check up and she said she is trying to persuade them to not be a "package deal" unless perhaps it is with the recolonization.
I'm sure her concern is for her son first, then the other guys, with the main issue being he/they might miss out on Greek life or join a house they are not *all* suited for. FYI: This has been her main talking point with them.
However, she said that they are a tight bunch of friends and that they will do what they will do. So she will try to "help" them make an informative discussion, (i.e. serve as a moderator or discussion leader) but is leaving it up to them. Basically knowing that this is one of those "life choices" that hopefully will help her son, and his friends, grow and mature.
Oh, one additional thing is that they guys have started researching the various fraternities - and the specific chapters on campus - and are starting to realize there is a difference. How this affects their search we shall see.
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