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At Butler each round you find out your invites in a one-on-one setting. I know when I found out for preference night that I wasn't invited to XYZ, but rather two other chapters (one of which I felt I wouldn't have fit in at ALL with) I cried like no other. My recruitment counselor let me stay in the room with her until I felt better. When we found out who we received bids from we were in a room with just our recruitment group. If you didn't receive a bid you were notified previously not to show up and you were also made aware of the possibility of COB. Some girls just don't make it to the revealing of what chapters the Recruitment Counselors and Panhellenic Exec are from because of whatever reason and the chapters generally are made aware of this. I think this helps out a lot, because it's still public and those excited can make a big deal in a group, but also those who are disappointed aren't ridiculed.
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