If she doesn't like a sorority, she should not write it down. Most people apply to several colleges, not just one. If you don't get your first or second choice college, you don't give up on the idea of higher education. You attend another college. A PNM might not receive a bid to her first or second choice sorority, but she might receive a bid to her third or fourth choice. She has options.
Believe me, a sorority does not want someone who doesn't want to be there. That type of pledge usually drops out very quickly.
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