Thread: Need Advice!!!
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Old 07-26-2004, 10:23 PM
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did you explain the rush process to her? did you say the whole chapter has to agree on who to accept?
did you explain that only one house can give her a bid?

talk to your sisters about her and to watch her during recruitment. don't you feel obligated to do anything that you do not want to do.

if the girl cannot accept the truth about formal rush then what else can you do? who knows, she might fall in love with another house. cross your fingers!!!

seriously, tell her that you alone cannot decide if she gets in. you can give her a good word, but it is the choice of the chapter. tell her not get her hopes up. if she is still not listening, then well.....
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