For one of our Alums about 2 years ago when she got married we all did something a little special for her. She had already arranged for us to sit in a special spot in the church during the ceremony, but the reception was a different story. After they did the bride and groom, and father-daughter dance we did a totally stupid, funny, creative "sister dance." All the ADPis got on the dance floor with her and made a ring and she danced in the middle. I guess you had to be there... But I assure you it definitely made things a little bit more relaxed from there on out. Then again we are all goofy girls
