ragtimerose, you are to worried about things moving to fast??
Go back and reread some of the PNAI and see jsut how long their journey was.
I think navane holds the record!

But Now=
I really feel, that because of events on GC that many Greek Orgaizational Memebers have started checking out Their Respective Soroities and have found, Yes, there is AI opening up a whole new avenue for women who could not join as an undergratuate.
There are many Women on GC who have expressed the joy of Joining a Soroity and all are very involved. Just read and see what the feelings are!
Please feel fortunate that yours is moving a lot faster!