[AOIIBrandi]

Originally posted by 4RunnerStar

what about during rush? like at a pref party, for instance, are you allowed at any point to tell the sister rushing you how much you really like the sorority? now it would seem fake to me to say, at the first party, "oh i really love your house, its so great, i just know i want this house" but then again how about at pref can you tell the sister how much you like the house and have enjoyed yourself? or is this considered "dirty" and are you supposed to just keep everything in your head until bid day?

No one answered this, so I will try. It is not considered "dirty" on the part of the PNM. I would not say anything about liking a house sooo much at anytime, but during Pref it is certainly all right to tell the house you want that you like them - not in a pushy or *psycho* way. This actually can help you get the house you really want. After all the sororities are looking for women who want to be there, as well as for women they want - the best thing that can happen is that both are the same.