Well one thing I can say about it that's not part of secret selection processes or anything is something I remember hearing a lot during recruitment (on the sorority side, not the PNM side): trust your sisters. If Girl 1 in a sorority likes a PNM, but the PNM just didn't click with Girl 2, Girl 2 could just trust that Girl 1 saw something in the PNM that she didn't get a chance to see and give her a chance.
Also when you said...
Quote:
|
*snip*i understand that there may be a handful of girls that you can absolutely not live without but what about filling out the bid list? if quota is 90, surely you cant just name 90 girls off the top of your head (out of a thousand) that you want to offer a bid to.
|
In a large rush like that, a sorority member probably won't have met all of the PNMs that her chapter ends up giving a bid to during recruitment. It's kind of hard to meet 90 women during a few hours in one week anyway! A sorority member trusts her sisters that they're making good judgements on the PNMs they've met and talked to the most, and her sisters trust her that she's also making good judgements.
I understand this might not help that much, coming from the sorority side when you want to know about the PNM side, but that's partly how it works.