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Ok, I've done the hooking up with the ex's friend, and that is definately a good way to go if you want to get back at him for hurting you. Yes, it's childish and a little bit petty, but I will say in all honesty that when I did it, it made me feel better. It also helped to hear that someone else finds you attractive- and has ever since you were with their friend. I see it as a good little self confidence booster. BUT, keep in mind that if you do that, you will most likely completely ruin ANY chance of getting back together with your ex. Even if he never found out, YOU would know and if you were back together with him, then that would probably be a tough thing to deal with hiding.
I would also go with not hooking up with the ex at this point- I also know this one from personal experience, and for me it has always ended up just hurting more.
I wm gonna say take 4runnerstar's advice, and just go there looking great and act casual.... Then LEAVE. No matter what his feelings for you have been recently, he will be intruiged and it will make him think about you. It may not make him want you back, but I think it will be a little bit of a slap in the face to make him think, "Damn....."
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