OK, I do think you can be in love with two men at the same time.  I was in this situation myself.  Long story, a lot of history.... 
  
Anyway, the problem comes in when you try to be in 
two relationships at the same time.  I chose not to do that.  I had to make a choice and I did.  It wasn't easy, but it wasn't fair to either man involved.
It was a learning experience.  Sometimes, you just have to let go and move on.  
*Insert "Butterfly" by Mariah Cary* 
  
[This message has been edited by Serenity (edited August 13, 2000).]