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well dont say that youre totally over him and youre just doing it for the sex because youre lying to us and yourself if you say that.
NEVER sleep with an ex (especially a recent one) if you still secretly or subconsciously want something to happen again because he might actually be over you or moving on and just want sex from anybody thats willing and that would hurt you when you start thinking there's still a chance.
if youre just in it for the sex...call another ex that you REALLY ARE over or like BabyP said...go to a club. hit up a club or bar or somewhere youre bound to meet a hot guy and hook up with him. then its truly meaningless because you just met him and there are no feelings other than "ohhhhhhhhh yeaaaah"
and hooking up with hot guys doesnt require knowing a last name or a first name for that matter. you only really need a first name or nickname to call him and then youre not tempted to match your first name with his last name and create a family.
i admit, girls have a hard time getting over some guys while others may not phase us. i'm not trying to be mean or rude or anything but i had to learn the hard way that sometimes the feelings for the EX arent mutual and i just wish girls would stop going back. thats a sure way to get hurt again... so sweetie, save yourself the pain in the long run.
oh um you could sleep with his roomate or best friend though since he did you wrong. if i broke up with a guy i wouldnt do this because its really wrong but if he hurt me i would. its a sweet revenge.
also, i agree that you could make him see what he gave up if you just stop in looking totally gorgeous and hand him the check and say "hmm okay well its been great but i've gotta go so...take care of yourself"
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