[preciousjeni]

Not too long ago, there was a certain GCer who was attacking things about me that were personal, difficult and impossible to change. As much as I wanted to say that I could just let it go, it was really bothering me. I confronted that GCer and to my great surprise an apology was issued! Since then, we have cohabited peacefully though we have ragingly different opinions on just about anything.

As "junior high" as some posts in this thread may seem, this is the first time since I've been on GC when people en masse have brought their complaints out into the open. I encourage everyone to confront those you feel have insulted you or your GC friends, preferably on PM! Some people may not even know that you were hurt by their comments! Let us be ladies and gentlemen and present ourselves as rational and intelligent members of the Greek community and/or Greek Chat.

The GC cliques are fun. It's fun to have a secret tie to another person - as it's been said, this IS a GREEK forum!! Obviously, we all like ties that hold us together. Inside jokes are ok too. But, the cruelty behind them must stop.

I'd hate to see this thread deleted (or closed for that matter) when this would be a terrific opportunity to show PNMs that we are all just a huge family that DOES get into arguments but can put it all behind us for the sake of unity. Right??

Edited for my typo problem!