Heatherh1981,
After talking to you last night on IM(where you seemed sweet, bright, and very excited about college)and now after reading your last post, I completely understand why you've been posting. I also wanted the 'life I never had' when I went to high school. I had a boyfriend all through high school, and was active in more organizations than you could shake a stick at. But because of my boyfriend, I wasn't really allowed to have friends. Because of that, I wasn't considered to be one of the 'pretty girls' and didn't really even have guy friends, and after my boyfriend and I broke up in February, I had no friends. My best friend now is one of the few girls who would talk to me(my ex had been a big sports star in our town- no one wanted to piss him off, I guess). I couldn't get a date for my senior prom, so a friend a town about 3 hours away drove down so I could go with him. It's kind of funny, you CAN be what you never were in high school. My ex-boyf about died when he found out I was a Gam(we have a chapter at a Univ. near my hometown, and they're all very pretty girls, and my chapter also has a great reputation). And funny how when he asks me out over my breaks, I never want to go. And also very funny how I couldn't pay for a date for my senior prom, but I had no trouble finding ones for formals. But, a lot of this came from me, not just the sorority. They just helped! You can be what you never were, as long as you're not fake about it(which I'm sure you won't be). Like someone said, you just have to be outgoing and friendly! You'll see when you get there!! I'll see you on IM!!
SIUAGD
As for your previous question-they're probably scared after reading the one about Barbie!! Guys are so silly sometimes!
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[This message has been edited by SIUAGD (edited August 11, 2000).]