My friends from high school are, sadly enough, sluts. I've had the same boyfriend for 5 years. They're big into getting drunk, I don't think I've ever been "drunk". I decided to go out on my own & find some girls like myself. I rushed, & didn't tell the girls from HS until weeks after bid day. It was one of the most liberating things I've ever done, corny as it sounds. I'm now (almost) a Chi Omega & have never been happier!
As a side note, one of the girls from HS dropped out after fall quarter, the other lost her scholarship, is moving out of the dorms & only taking 2 classes this semester. Not to mention the friend who got married and has a baby due in April. They're all 19.
It seems to me, I made a great choice!
Heidi