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Originally posted by AXJules
And I'm the first to admit that none of us are perfect. I don't even know half the people you think are in "h&a,", thus I wouldn't claim them as my friends. You see us as bitches...how does that make it ok for you to call us names? Especially with some of the earlier posts in this thread...if we were such mean, nasty people I don't think Heather and I would have spent the time in here getting our points across tactfully. So again, you want a nice fair place to play...but it's ok to get the name calling out now, and then start fresh whenever you're done? I'm sorry but that's not right.
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i've never even named off who i think is in the harem, so how would you know (who i haven't even mentioned) who i think is in it? just a question/thought......
i haven't dropped anyone's names.....i've merely said "those who associate with." and how does it make it ok to name call? well, honestly, i don't ever think it is....but in
this case, where the name calling and divulging of personal info has been going on for so long....i call it like i see it. and again....i'm not the only one with this point of view. i just find it funny how you haven't called anyone else out on doing this (when it's been going on for so long with your lil friends), but you'll call me out on it b/c i am speaking
against your friends. just another thought......
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Again, I agree with this. But I know who were behind the fake lj's/gc usernames/internet lawyer/etc etc and with the exception of two, they're not really my friends. I don't even speak to these people on OR off gc...and now I'm a bitch b/c it's my responsibility to make them stop? And when I say I, I'm really referring to about 10 other people in H&A in the same position. That's a lot of finger pointing that probably shouldn't be done...
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you say you don't know all of these ppl or talk with these ppl.....but there ARE ppl within this so-called harem who do, and who contribute to the mean threads, etc., etc.....and from the way it is on here, guilty by association. no, it's not YOUR "responsibility" to make them stop, but you certainly don't have to contribute (i'm not pointing this directly at
you, jules....it's a generalized "you") and i'm sorry if you don't want to be thought of in a negative way, but there it is. there are nasty ppl on this board, and harem MAY not start all of it, but they chime right in with it. since you all always refer to yourselves together, ppl group you all together now. same as in any RL GLO. you all have sadly made an unkind reputation for yourselves. it may not be the fault of all, but the mistakes of many reflect back on the whole. and the fake ljs or user names MAY in fact not be all harem, but the fact most will agree with the mean posts or help continue the thread just furthers ppl's opinions.
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Again all I'm saying is you might not know as much of the situation as you think you do, and if you want things to change on gc i would think you'd want to work equally with people like Heather and I that are actually listening to what you have to say.
Eh- I have to go to work...I've tried to be as tactful as I can and your opinion of me is always your opinion and rightfully had... I just wish you'd realize that no one is as innocent (and in some cases, as evil) as you think they are.
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and you could be right.....i don't know prob everything there is to know. i haven't been around the boards as much as in the past, and i will prob disappear for a while again soon b/c i live elsewhere (sans comp) and have other things to do with my life than a 15 page discussion on the evils of GC.
anyway, my bottom line to EVERYONE: stop bein nasty. period.