etienneSAI and heatherh1981,
I didn't mean to come off as snotty, and I'm sorry if I did, it is so hard to get meanings without hearing the tones of people's voices. As I said in my second post, maybe joining a sorority will be a good experience for heatherh1981, as she will learn things that maybe she doesn't know about right now, and her sisters will help her grow and mature. And you are correct, I don't know a thing about her prior life experiences, but even after everyone else's posts, she was still posting (how do I say it delicately) 'silly' posts. I in no way want to reduce her excitement of coming to college(I was excited as anyone could be), but I guess I wanted her to be realistic about it, and just did not voice it in a very considerate way. I just know that if I was rushing a girl and all she talked about was boys, booze, and parties, she'd be off my house's list faster than I don't know what, and if she's excited enough about rushing, I don't want her to get nixed because she says something wrong during rush. I would love every girl who's interested to rush and I hope they get the same thing out of a sorority that I have gotten out of mine, but they have to get in one before they can.
Once again, my apologies, SIUAGD
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