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Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva
jules.....i'm being perfectly honest with you when i say that there are ppl who either are in the harem/claim the harem who are not nice to other posters. it's just easiest to say "harem" b/c 9 times out of 10, it's harem related trash talking. i wouldn't want to be associated with that, either. as far as me calling the harem "stereotypical sorority b*tches"....that is how i, among others, see the harem.
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And I'm the first to admit that none of us are perfect. I don't even know half the people you think are in "h&a,", thus I wouldn't claim them as my friends. You see us as bitches...how does that make it ok for you to call us names? Especially with some of the earlier posts in this thread...if we were such mean, nasty people I don't think Heather and I would have spent the time in here getting our points across tactfully. So again, you want a nice fair place to play...but it's ok to get the name calling out now, and then start fresh whenever you're done? I'm sorry but that's not right.
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ppl you are close to are going to seem innocent b/c they are your friends....outside looking in is a LOT different than inside looking out. and what i know for sure is that if someone was telling me that i was being mean, i would do my best to stop whatever it was....
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Again, I agree with this. But I know who were behind the fake lj's/gc usernames/internet lawyer/etc etc and with the exception of two, they're not really my friends. I don't even speak to these people on OR off gc...and now I'm a bitch b/c it's my responsibility to make them stop? And when I say I, I'm really referring to about 10 other people in H&A in the same position. That's a lot of finger pointing that probably shouldn't be done...
Again all I'm saying is you might not know as much of the situation as you think you do, and if you want things to change on gc i would think you'd want to work equally with people like Heather and I that are actually listening to what you have to say.
Eh- I have to go to work...I've tried to be as tactful as I can and your opinion of me is always your opinion and rightfully had... I just wish you'd realize that no one is as innocent (and in some cases, as evil) as you think they are.