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Old 07-20-2004, 08:42 AM
AlphaFrog AlphaFrog is offline
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I don't think my mom ever expected for me to wait for marriage. She's a licenced councilor and she's worked with so many teenage/college clients that she knows better. (It's a little harder to live in denial when you hear about pre-marital/teenage sex every day). In fact, when I was with my ex, SHE tried to talk to ME about it. She said when I thought I was ready to have sex with him, I should come talk to her about it (YEAH right, plus she was a little late with that).

Now, this Thursday (after some drama with his parents about moving back to Mexico) my fiance is coming down from IL to live with my parents and I until we close on our house. My parents (well, my mom...my dad doesn't get much say) were debating on putting us in seperate rooms. My mom was talking to a friend about it and she said "HELLO, she's pregnant, what difference does it make if they're in the same room...she can't get MORE pregnant!"

And it wouldn't be pre-marital if we had gotten married when we were planning...but my mom wanted me to wait and focus on the pregnancy without the stress of planning a wedding...and consitering we're living with them and they're helping finance our house, we'll play along with them for now...

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