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Originally posted by AXJules
Well written, Heather. I pretty much agree.
If you guys want to label yourselves EE, who cares- that's awesome. Good for you. If it makes people feel comfortable, thats wonderful. I am getting frustrated, though, by you using the H&A label in coordination with the fake personalities, LJ's, etc. I know who did most of those things...and none of them were members of 'our' clique.
Straight up, no mistaking, we were called 'stereotypical sorority bitches" in this thread. PLEASE find a thread on GC where we've done the same to any of you. Find me some proof. Anyone who's ever kidded around with us has become 'one' of us if they wanted...(the reason why the H&A is so huge and I'm not understanding how we could be more accepting. )All I'm saying is that you're so convinced that we're so nasty, lampooning, mean...you might want to make sure you're not doing the same. Because at the end of the day, I know I don't have the time in my day or desire to use people's real names or create fake ljs. And I'd really appreciate not being associated with that.
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jules.....i'm being perfectly honest with you when i say that there are ppl who either are in the harem/claim the harem who are not nice to other posters. it's just easiest to say "harem" b/c 9 times out of 10, it's harem related trash talking. i wouldn't want to be associated with that, either. as far as me calling the harem "stereotypical sorority b*tches"....that is how i, among others, see the harem. they get mad when ppl don't agree with them, but bitch when someone says something about
their beliefs. ppl you are close to are going to seem innocent b/c they are your friends....outside looking in is a LOT different than inside looking out. and what i know for sure is that if someone was telling me that i was being mean, i would do my best to stop whatever it was.....b/c what is a joke to someone, isn't always to someone else. common courtesy and respect is all ppl ask for. making fun of someone
even more b/c they asked you to "play nice" is even more proof of the term i described the harem as.
and i am not doing the same......this was like a little play to bring to light what is really going on here. and that is ppl trying to joke around, hurting ppl's feelings, and the "jokesters" aren't caring. it's rude.....and it is mean. and it should stop. whoever is behind it all, it should stop. i address the harem more than anyone else b/c honest to goodness it's ppl affiliated with the "harem" starting the threads, etc., etc. read kitso's last post.....that pretty much says it all.