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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
I was always there for ex #1 because I was his friend. What's so wrong with that? If you're this person's friend, then you'll stick by them to the end.
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I used to agree until I realized that it was tearing my life apart by being their friend. Unless someone recognizes that they have a problem & is proactive about helping themself it is IMPOSSIBLE for you to help them. I promised that I would never ever leave their side but slowly they were wearing me down & my life was falling apart. It was then that I realized that you can't help someone until they help themself first.