I understand. I made it clear to them that I would support them in any way I could but I couldn't always be there for them. Also, they kept talking about "now that they met me and have me in their life that will keep them from going back". That is such a scary statement, and I reminded them that I cannot always be there. Also sometimes for whatever reason, we stop being friends with certain people in our lives, and I reminded them that I don't want to be a reason for their relapse in the future. Another question I have, this person is independently employed and does not have healthcare benefits at this time. I am sure this makes it difficult to obtain treatment because it is so expensive. They don't believe in NA/AA either and I am not sure that I really believe in that method of treatment either. Thanks guys for listening
