Unfortunately I have learned that some people will quickly drop friends in order to be a greek, which is sad because part of the reason of joining a sorority is sisterhood, right. I went through my fair share of tears last semester after learning the truth about a few of my so called "friends". I also learned who really were my friends, and I feel blessed to of gotten rid of the bad apples in the bunch. One thing I learned is that it is ironic that the ones that will do anything to become a part of xyz organization are the ones that just realized thier interest and don't have any sound, sincere reasons for joining. How can you walk over people to be a part of something you recently had interest in? I've seen girls change before even receiving letters, which is sad, especially when they still haven't received them. I know who I am, and I am proud to be me. Despite my interest, I am not lacking or unfullfilled in my own life due to not being greek. If those so called "friends" were greek before me, I would never look at them with envy, how could I envy someone that I know is empty without their letters
Part of the reason that I like greek chat is that you can't tell the difference in anyones post before or after they become greek.