[ISUKappa]

I don't understand why this is such a big issue. You said yourself it wasn't for you and you left. Why go into any more details than that? If you've been reading, almost everyone has said it's not for everyone but you never know until you try. So you tried and it wasn't. Big deal.

Thousands of people decide that Greek Life isn't for them and leave their respective organizations every year for their own reasons. And we as collective organizations understand that. Some of my good friends decided they didn't want to be members anymore and while I was sad and disappointed, I knew it was their choice to make. I am still friends with them, even though it's been over 5 years since they left and over 3 years since we graduated. Most people, once they resign membership, don't really think about Greek Life again unless their leaving was under less-than-desirable circumstances or they harbor some sort of ill will towards their organization.

Honestly, the only way PNMs are going to know if Greek Life is for them is to go through some sort of recruitment and experience it for themselves. It is their decision to make. We are just here to answer questions and give them any guidance they may need.