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I understand where your mom is coming from because I had those same stereotypes in my head. My mom wanted me to join a sorority because she was concerned that most of my friends were guys and she wanted me to have all the opportunities that she didn't have. I thought that there was no way I'd ever fit into a sorority. It actually took me a year of college to meet the Greeks on campus and realize that every stereotype I had was false.
I found that Greeks tended to be more well-balanced than other students. Many had found a way to balance their Greek organization, other leadership activities, classes, and a social life. I believe that finding this balance is the most important part of college and I believe that I was able to acheive it. Most organizations encourage you to involve yourself in other campus activities, they also require a minimum GPA, and allow you a wonderful outlet to serve the community and meet some lifelong friends.
As for the alcohol...it is there, but its on all campuses, but its a choice. Some people drink and others don't. I had sisters who partied a lot and sisters who didn't drink at all. And there was no pressure one way or the other.
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