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Originally posted by AlphaFrog
While a vindictive personality might come out during rush, the only way you're going to be able to spot someone with a substance abuse problem is if you see them slammed at the bar every night after rush ends, since rush is a dry event. Even if a girl discusses alcohol at rush (which I'm pretty sure is a no-no most places), it's impossible to tell if someone has a drinking problem from just talking to them.
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I agree that some problems are hard to spot. However, it might be possible to ask questions that could elicit some meaningful information. For example, how does a PNM deal with stress or conflict? Is she concerned about breaking the law? Does she seem to have healthy relationships with other people?