"Finally, don't be afraid to tell someone no, if the kid is not going to get a bid, then let him know that so he doesn't waste your time or his own. I'll be honest that it's hard but it's dissappointing to see the same kids keep coming back when the chapter knows it's not going to happen"
Very well said.....I feel horrible for those guys that keep on coming back trying way to hard to try to be "cool". Some of the guys that come out try to be someone that they aren't and if they acted like who they truely are they could have a chance.
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