Okay, being serious for a moment (in no way does that mean I do not like fun
), but there are less "old fashioned" guys because there are less "old fashioned" women.
With the sexual revolution, women changed their dieas about their roles in society and men had to change right along with them. That doesn't mean there aren't any out there though.
So men my be wary of doing these things for/in front of women because they don't know how they'll respond. Some women may not like it or expect a man to open the car door for them, pull out their chair to seat the at dinenr, etc, etc.
I personally, don't hold those tradional views and never expect a man to open the car door for me, well for one I can do it myself, but that doesn't mean I don't appreciate it when it's done for me.
So maybe, if you want to find a man with more traditional values and views you have to start looking for them in places where people who hold those views congregrate. I'd venture to say that bars, work, and even schools don't hold many of those types of men.