**Old head entering the thread
I know my views will sound very pre-historic and old fashioned to some of you youngstas
but here goes... I made the decision to become celibate after having had sex before. First and foremost reason was because I wanted to do things God's way. I realize that the things in the Bible aren't to make us live like nuns...but they are to protect us. ANd further, If I want to marry a Godly man, I must first practice what I preach and be a Godly woman. Secondly, I think so much of the emotional and mental attraction between two people are not even explored because sex is entered into too fast. The chemistry between folks is automatically channeled into sexual energy. I think its sad that many people will never know what it is to have a "mental orgasm" ..and yes ladies..it is possible for a man to touch you in ways you've never been touched before...without laying a hand on you! That's real love!
Of course the sexual part is a struggle..but if you find someone that's willing to endure that struggle with you and fall in love with your mind..and who you are as a person..and respect you as a person...everything else will fall into place...and you won't have to ask yourself if he/she is the one.
**OK old head exiting the thread LOL