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Rush is a very superficial process. HOLD ON. I say this because you get a minute here or there to make an impression on multiple strangers on multiple days.
Someone who appears physically fit, well-groomed and put-together is going to be considered more desirable. Studies have been done that show EMPLOYERS select more attractive people over less attractive people in job interviews time after time. So, if you are going through rush in the fall... take the time to look classy and composed. If you don't what that means, pick up an Ann Taylor catalogue. You can still add your own personal flair with signature jewelry and your makeup. Also, if you're going to school in the South, Northeast, Southwest, Mid-west, West Coast... there are going to be different "looks." College Panhellenic websites are a beautiful thing to get a feel for those looks.
Also remember that while your individuality is respected, as a sorority member, you are becoming part of a GROUP. And as diverse as each person in that group, there is a certain amount of conformity-- rules of conduct, etc. And like it or not, some chapters do have a certain unintentional "look" about them-- it just comes of a group of women living together. It's not an attempt to squash anyone. So while you're not a total conformist for being a sister, there is still a level of conformity that will vary from school to school, chapter to chapter.
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