Sandi, from one local president to another...do your own thang!!
I feel that is why so many do and are joining local sororities...because they want to create something. For those that are NPC, they all had to start someone!! Buck the trend and do things your own way! It is fun to hang out with all the sororities because there really is no "caste system", you don't associate because they are NPC and you are not! You associate because everyone joined for the same reason and one of those were to have fun! Believe me, as President, you can't let every little thing stress you, cuz there will always be something else to worry about!!
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Sarah Lyon
Sister Lots-a-Heart, #9
President, Iota Beta Chi Sorority
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