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Originally posted by Taualumna
fist his cutlery
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Once again, my mind is in the gutter and this sounds like a scene from Behind The Green Door XXVII.
The guys I work with can be as gentlemanly and sophisticated as any royalty - but I've partied with them too, and they can be complete goofballs. It all depends who you're with. If we were still in a "work" situation - i.e. a party for our clients - they need to have some decorum. But if it's just me and them, they can dance on a bar for all I care. I don't know what your situation at this party was, but if there was still some business getting done, then yes, that was inappropriate.
Plus I just want to add that some guys can be charming and chivalrous in public but abusive pricks in private. I don't mean just thinking you should wear pearls & a dress to wax the floor, I mean seriously physically or mentally abusive. Jess is right in saying you have every right to look for someone and be picky - but don't let fancy manners or clothes deceive you.