You know . . . there are guys that are always on the make and will take anything you do, innocent or not, as an invitation to hit on you.
There also guys that are almost never on the make, they can be pretty oblvivious to subtle signs of interest.
Somtimes you really have to hit a man over the head with it, otherwise he might think you are just being friendly, or just saying what you mean. Example: You REALLY do need help moving stuff.
Lower the pressure, ask himm out for a few drinks after work.
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Originally posted by crzychx
Its definitely just attraction, and I'm not looking to have his baby or anything! I just want to get to know him!
I'm pretty terrified to just ask him out but I think I can manage the part about whether he has a girlfriend or not.
Maybe I'll tell him I need a strong man to help me move & see if he'll help...?
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