A very big thanks to wptw for being such a great resource on the GC!!
Someone else PM'ed me and told me about the following ebay site to remove any and all fraternal directories on Ebay!!!!
At least there is one fraternal item that can be removed!!
http://pages.ebay.com/help/policies/maillists.html
eBay does not permit the sale of bulk email or mailing lists that contain names, addresses, phone numbers, or other personal identifying information.