Thanks for all your replies.
There are no other sororities on this campus. It's another thing that makes it hard. No competition and no one to look up to. No one pushing them -- besides the advisors -- to be better.
We even took them to a large school in another city so they could see how "real" sororities work.
I don't mean to make it sound like these are bad girls. They're not. I just feel like we're trying to steer them in one direction and they're trying to go another.
I think we're going to have a meeting with the university and then talk to the girls and tell them they need to decide. If they want to stay local, then there's not much I can do for them.
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