Melody, reread my post. I did not say that if sorors don't understand the bond, than they are not sorors. I would never disrespect any soror or question their process in a public forum. Obviously, with any organization members are made differently.
Much Delta Luv
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Originally posted by Melody13_1913:
Reds6,
That's just it, YOUR view comes from YOUR experiences whereas Quest's view comes from hers.
I don't think it's fair for you to say that if sorors don't "understand" the bond then they're not sorors. It has very little to do with understanding, but more to do with PREFERENCE. I understand the bond. I respect the bond. And I had a wonderful and educational process. And I'll admit that I'm still learning.
Like Quest, I don't have a problem with ALL Ques. I've just had enough unpleasant experiences with SOME Ques.
ace_que98,
I have no problem chillin' or "gettin' hype with" those bruhs who have treated me with respect. But I will not jump up and down and get hyped up (like I have seen some sorors do) just because a bruh is in my presence. The kind of person I am, I'll smile, go over to the bruh and give him some love.
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