I am not judging the whole. I have met some very nice and loving bruhs that have treated me like a queen, HOWEVER, I have also had some very negative experiences(more negative than positive). I am not knocking anyone for their opinion but this one belongs to me and if you don't like it that would be too bad for you. I am a proud soror and have been for a few years and there is only so much I am going to tolerate from someone who has no respect for me or my body. Just because Delta's as you say hold the bruh's in such high esteem does not mean that we all have to and that is my $1,913.00 worth.
oh yeah, and last I checked I pledged Delta not Omega Psi Phi. I was never known as a lamp!!!!! So your right I am not a bruh and my process was fine.
[This message has been edited by Quest (edited June 05, 2001).]