hi to all of you above, you have all said some great things. i will totally leave if anything goes down tommorrow. i am not going to put myself in a situation that as pointed out has nothing to do with me. oh, cuaphi, the reason i know about her drunkenness is she always goes to his band's shows. also him and his friends all grew up together in long island and she is part of the group. he said she used to be nice but then had a bunch of stuff happen to her where she became like this. plus you know the saying "that people are on their bestest behavior in the beginning and then their real selves come out"................i am not too worried overall. i've met his family and all his friends and have gotten lotsa positive reports about how much they like me and him together
