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This might not be the most correct answer, but I say I own it.
Yes, our nationals does say that the badge is an honor that can be taken away. I'm kind of conflicted on this, I believe they own it..to a certain extent. If I'm kicked out, then yes I'd return it. But, I wouldn't really want to give it up..even if my membership ceased. (Which will hopefully never happen) I feel connected to my badge and it means a lot to me, I can't see giving it up without a fight. I'd probably give in and return it, because honestly, if I'm no longer a member then I don't want to have any ties to it anyway. However, when I die, I don't plan to have it sent to nationals. I'd want someone that knows how much it means to me (even if they don't know the ritual meaning of it) to have possesion of it rather than it go sit in a box at headquarters. If I died today, I'd want on of my closest sisters to have it, either them or my boyfriend. They know how important it is to me and would take care of it for me. If I ever had a legacy, I'd want her to have it of course.
Sorry if this didn't make sense! To sum up: I'd say that I own my badge, but since I'm a member of Delta Zeta I'd have to say I'd try to stick to our rules. I don't like picking and choosing regulations.
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