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Originally posted by #1 Leading Lady:
Now why NON-GREEKS and GREEKS for that matter have a Problem with this I don't know. Do you hear anyone tripping about the the men of Alpha Phi Alpha and the ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha being the First Family??? ( No disrespect intended )
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FYI, I personally don't have a problem at all with any bond that Deltas have with the Ques. (As you have so eloquently
recognized, we have our own bond with the men of Alpha Phi Alpha.)My response to CrimsonRage's question was to clarify something which appeared to be very confusing for her.
As you stated, Alpha Kappa Alpha and Alpha Phi Alpha do indeed share a special bond, but I feel very secure within that bond to not feel threatened if a member of another sorority refers to them as "the bruhs". Why would I? I know where the
real love/connection/bond lies.
It's kind of like having a man...if you are secure in your relationship and truly know you are the only woman for him (and vice versa), you wouldn't be one of those possesive females that run around trying to fight every girl that says hi to him.
My best friend is a Delta, so I think the Coleman Love thing is wonderful....so believe me...I am not trying to minimize that bond or by any means claim the Ques as my brothers. God knows, I have more than enough of "the bruhs" as friends....I don't need them as brothers too.