Idcidents like this make me sad
Here is a fraternity that speaks about brotherhood so passionately, but when push comes to shove they don't put their money where their mouth is (sounds funny).
I'm real sorry that this was your very first experience with greek life. It reinforces some of the stereotypes that people believe about greeks.
When rush comes around rush again and don't suicide rush this time. Be open to all the houses, do some research and see which ones have the same opinions that you have about greek like.
My chapter had a girl that had to drop last fall because of personal problems. We were all devastated that she dropped our president encouraged all actives to send her an email, call her and let her know that we were still here for her, if she needed anything or just wanted to talk. We encouraged her to come back and rush in the spring and she did. I
I am happy to announce that she is now my sister and a very wonderful addition to my sisterhood.
Be happy and rush again. I hope that you find your TRUE home....It will be such a wonderful feeling when you find where you belong.
Good-Luck and I'll be rooting for you.